nekoko deli

beauty of kinbaku

yoru no ran
ka ni kakurete ya
hana shiroshi

(Buson Yosa, 1715-1783)

K i n b a k u

Makoto, Keiai, Ai, Yamatonadeshiko, Shinjitsu, Shikan
~ joy & essence of life, with roots in Japan; old Japan ~

Air/Wind (風)
Water (水)
Void/Sky/Heaven (空)
Fire (火)
Earth (地)

Connecting. Leading. Seducing her. Opening her... to Him.
...her submission. Over-powered, empowered.
A love-dance.
Irresistible He is, rope talking from his kokoro.
Irreversibly she gives in, to Him. Body bound by hearts.

Not the forcefull western sexual ego-bondage-ride.
Nor simple pleasure and needs of flesh & mind.
No fetish. No sexual kink.

But a graceful 3-some;　 1+1 = 7
Man~woman, heavenly, lasciviously, entangled.

He;
Unbendable, never insensitive. Her lead. His rope, heart, mind.
She;
receptive, responding, pleasing, confiding, courageous - Complying.

Rope;
their Power, their life, mercylessness, unveiling, strenght, pain, protective, comforting security, their caress, their honesty.

Ropes do not lie.
Ropes bring out what is.

His will, flowing from his hand, mind, skills and heart.
~ met & nourished by her abilities, sensitivity & sensuality.

Complete Dominance ~ pure submission

Intensity & beauty of submitting woman in His rope.

nec temere nec timide

crystal clear,
sharp and bright,
the sacred sword
allows no opening
for evil to roost
(Moriehei Ueshiba)

http://www.tokyobound.com/
http://www.osadasteve.com/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/nekokodeli/
http://www.kurokame.dk/
http://www.mackenziecross.blogspot.com/

AND the must-have:
http://www.thebeautyofkinbaku.com/

Is your teacup full?

^.-

always:
¤ Safe ¤ Sane ¤ Empathy ¤

Monday, 11 May 2009

2 dages workshop i København med:

Enji Rayd
fra Osada kinbaku dojo Berlin!

Info og tilmelding via: http://shibari.web.surftown.dk/

mata ne!
nekoko ^^

Osada Steve on Hardness:

It is easy to drive hard and break the engine, just as it is easy to indiscriminately apply pain.

Rope can very easily inflict severe damage when done by an unskilled rigger.
It is easy to cause pain, just as it is easy to inflict damage.
It is easy to be hard. Because there is no skill involved.

LINK: http://www.osadasteve.com/studio6_en.html

Thankyou Stevedono!
for letting me quote your knowledged writings. Very true. And one might add:

Besides lack of skills - maybe also lack of courage & 'enlightenment' ?

...fear of deeply accessing that other person;
...of ewoking & getting profound emotional reactions, not by means of pain.

A cultural clash indeed;
~taking japanese way of rope to the West,
but not equivalent amount of spirit/kokoro?!

Without pain-effect-doings & reactions (as thrilling as they may be ^.~ when skillfully, empathetically inflicted!),
the 'rigger' has to be all present and balanced, as man, and skilled as rigger, to ewoke that particularly deep, heart-all-open, submission in ropes.
And to deal with the submissive's submitting to him and his seductive request *s*

He can neither hide behind pain-effects, nor get that sweet, trusting, submissive surrender by mere means of pain.

As much as I love the 'sweet' surrender to a truly empathetic Dom's mind, heart & singletail
~ there will only be 'all the way' in ropes, when he knows to submit her and open her heart for him in gentler, skilled, courageous, non-painfull ways too...